If you want to be with a girl, tell her. Don't assume she will wait around. Some girls have trouble picking up hints anyway.
Gentle and Quiet Spirit.
"Don’t be concerned about the outward beauty of fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry, or beautiful clothes. You should clothe yourselves instead with the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God."- 1 Peter 3:3-4